Life is full of up's & down's. Frequency of those odds and evens are depending on various factors; some of them are in control but some of them are not. Some of them are predictable; some of them are not.
Most important is the reaction on those acts or events which makes lot of difference in our life.
Someone is irritating you and you lose your temper; not only that but you also end-up losing time, energy and sometime good relationship. That same anger may spoil many things without even noticed by you. Not only that, but during anger we also fuel the conversation wrongly and no one actually knows the outcome.
Ultimately who is the winner?
Sometimes; the one who irritated you (it may be our perception also) or the person to whom we are misunderstanding.
Why we should make winner to someone who spoiled our mood and time or else “lose both ways for nothing”.
In that situation “Let’s hold yourself for few seconds to decide on next course of action; review it two times and then deliver”.
This may sound easy in the discussion but practically hard to do it, but you will find this choice is better than the other i.e. “Fueling the conversation”.
Try this out next time; I am sure everything will get change, without even damaging most of the things.
Entire objective of doing this exercise is to make sure “to kill the bad objective or confusion but not the good relationship; and make us win".
Keep Smiling...










